November 16th, 2009
10:39 AM ET
A driving force for athletes

As I was putting together the story on young phenoms, I realized most teen athletes have a driving force, someone that pushes them to be great.

Andre Agassi, Tiger Woods, Kaká, and Venus and Serena Williams have their fathers. Lebron James and Cristiano Ronaldo have their mothers. Mike Tyson had his trainer and adoptive dad, Constantine "Cus" D'Amato, and Dakota Simms has his parents, Terence and Yoshi.

Darryl Dawkins told me his mother and pastor were major influences in his decision to go pro in 1975, but they weren't the only ones pushing him toward excellence.

Growing up in Orlando, Florida, Dawkins often found himself on courts in the city projects, playing with men in their 20s and 30s. He wanted to play with older guys to get better, even if some of them were gangsters, druggies and drunks.

" 'This guy's going to be something, and it's going to be our fault if he doesn't do anything and ends up like we are.' The winos would say that to me," Dawkins said.

By every account, ­ including his own, ­Dawkins was cocky when he got into the league. He often tapped his super-sized ego to stand out on a Philadelphia 76ers team that already included characters such as Julius "Dr. J" Erving and World B. Free.

Dawkins said he drank, did drugs and irresponsibly courted women before realizing such vices could be his downfall.

"This is my life. I want to play ball. If I keep going the wrong way, my career's going to be over," he remembered thinking.

He also wanted to work with children later in life and realized that "people don't want you around their kids if you're a druggie or an alkie."

Today, Dawkins is best remembered as "Chocolate Thunder," the man who prompted the NBA to fine any player who shattered a backboard. But others know him for the time he spends visiting children's hospitals and military bases, working with the Special Olympics and hosting basketball camps for young hoopsters.

It's refreshing that the young men playing basketball for Lehigh Carbon Community College have Double D as a head coach. It shows everyone can be a role model, no matter his or her history.

Dawkins learned that much from the winos in the Orlando projects.

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November 16th, 2009
12:38 pm ET
 

Indeed, this man was a fan favorite. But what he is doing now makes him even more of a favorite in my book!

Posted by: Eric of Reseda
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November 16th, 2009
2:53 pm ET
 

I've been a fan of Mr. Dawkins since I was in high school, and was astonished to recognize him recently in an airport. He was quite friendly and gracious, and I really enjoyed the encounter. Kudos to Darryl for his continued good work!

Posted by: Larry Miller
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November 16th, 2009
9:25 pm ET
 

Listed above are my faves. Its an inspiration to have such heroes and heroines.

Posted by: Peter-Dallas
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November 17th, 2009
12:28 pm ET
 

I'm old enough to have watched him play for the Sixers, he was quite a force. More importantly he's even more of a force now, off the court. Emerson said "The purpose of life is not to be happy. It is to be useful, to be honorable, to be compassionate, and to have it make a difference that you have lived and lived well." Mr. Dawkins has lived well!

Posted by: Joe
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November 17th, 2009
5:15 pm ET
 

Having been his assistant for more than 7 yrs I can honestly say that he has grown to be one hell of a human being. His book and U tube just show the Dawk of the past. This man is happy with the life God presented him and how he accepted the challeges. His personality is contageous and his dedication to his family and kids in general makes him pretty special. I think the NBA is missing the boat by not giving him an oppurtunity in their ranks. Some of these players need more than x and o's in their young lives. No one can give them more expereince than Dawk.

Posted by: Nat Amato
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